Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and it should reflect your unique love story—not just a collection of Pinterest-inspired ideas. While planning, it's easy to get caught up in what you think a wedding “should” be. But the most memorable weddings are the ones where couples make the day their own. Here are five ways to infuse personal touches into your St Kilda wedding and create moments that are truly unforgettable.

1. Have a Small, Intimate Wedding

Choosing a smaller guest list allows you to spend meaningful time with those who matter most. It’s easy to feel pressured into inviting everyone, but remember that your wedding should be about celebrating with the people who support and love you. A smaller wedding creates a more relaxed, intimate atmosphere where you can enjoy each guest's company—rather than just greeting everyone briefly. Consider inviting close family and a few friends who have been part of your journey as a couple.

2. Take Photos Before the Ceremony

Maximize your time with guests by scheduling your wedding photos before the ceremony. This not only calms pre-wedding nerves but also gives you a chance for a 'first look'—a private moment to see each other before walking down the aisle. St Kilda offers stunning backdrops, whether it’s the picturesque beach or charming local architecture. By getting your photos done early, you can fully relax and enjoy the celebration without being pulled away for a photo session.

3. Write Personal Notes to Your Guests

Let your guests know how much they mean to you with a personalized note. Placing a handwritten message on each seat or attached to a small favor is a thoughtful touch that makes your guests feel special. Whether it’s a shared memory, a thank-you for their support, or just a heartfelt note, these small gestures add a deeply personal element to your wedding. It’s a simple way to express your gratitude and make each guest feel valued.

4. Plan a Fun Dance with Your Bridal Party

Add a playful twist to your wedding day by choreographing a dance with your bridal party. This not only breaks the ice but also creates a memorable experience for everyone involved. Whether it's a simple routine to a favorite song or a full-blown dance number, it’s a chance to inject your personality into the day. It’s also a great way to get everyone in the mood to hit the dance floor, ensuring your reception is filled with energy and laughter.

5. Opt for a Charitable Bonbonniere Alternative

Instead of spending on traditional bonbonniere, consider donating to a charity that’s meaningful to you and your guests. You can let your guests choose from a list of charities and have them tick their chosen option on a card. This thoughtful gesture not only spreads goodwill but also reflects your values as a couple. It’s a unique way to give back and make a positive impact, aligning your wedding day with the causes you care about.

Hello! I am Fran Jorgensen and I am a Melbourne based wedding photographer, always looking for an honest way to tell your story. I am a lifestyle photographer and that means that through prompts and games I aim to achieve natural emotions and images that are cohesive and organic and that make you feel. Some of the areas currently serviced are: Mornington peninsula, Dromana weddings and elopements, Flinders, Red hill, and the Bayside area: Hampton, Sandringham, Black rock, Mentone, Elwood and St kilda.

A few dates will be released for weddings in Torquay and Angelsea.